Fortunately, after a few months, things started getting better, and slowly, people became more tolerant. The frustrating thing was that we weren’t trying to make a splash or a sensation we just wanted to be treated like any other people and any other couple. I remember the helpless anger I felt when I realized that my school wasn’t going to do much to help us. We got detentions for hugging and homophobic comments hissed at us behind our backs. My girlfriend and I faced discrimination and harassment from both students and faculty. Unfortunately, my high school is rather conservative, and being the first openly gay couple wasn’t very easy.
My girlfriend and I decided that while we wouldn’t shout from the rooftops, we also wouldn’t hide that we were dating. Coming out to my friends was one thing coming out to the rest of my high school was another. My honesty really strengthened our friendships, and their support became an invaluable resource for me for years to come. They all became completely comfortable with it in their eyes it was just part of who I was. Regardless of their initial reaction, all my friends eventually accepted me. I told my friends individually, and their responses varied from confused to unsurprised.
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